It’s hard enough to wake up any morning, but now I have to get ready for work. What’s that about? Most days, it exhausts me to the point that I can’t go to work!
What is someone with fibromyalgia to do? Here are a few things that make it easier for me to get out the door and into work:
Prepare the night before. This is fairly obvious, but not easy to accomplish. I lay out my clothes and make sure my lunch is packed. My keys and purse are where they should be. I do anything I can the night before.
Showers. They are a challenge, to say the least. Showering with fibro can be difficult to impossible. I’ve had issues with dizziness. I can’t catch my breath, or sometimes have heavy and labored breathing. My doctor recommended taking cooler showers and to move slow and easy. I try to take showers in the late afternoon or evening and take sponge baths in the morning. I quickly wash the parts that need it and I am good to go.
Getting dressed. I wear clothes that are easy to put on and take off. If I could go to work in my sweats, I would. But since that isn’t allowed, I tend to stick with shirts without buttons and pull-on pants. Dresses work pretty slick, too, as long as there isn’t a zipper in the back. (I refuse, however, to wear nylons!)
Hair and makeup. I try to wash and style my hair the night before, if possible, and touch it up before I leave. It’s difficult for me to take care of my hair. My arms get tired and sore. It gets to the point where I can’t lift them anymore. I finally opted for an easy-to-care-for hairstyle. I tend to wear only some powder for makeup, unless it is a special occasion or I look like death warmed over. Some days require a little cover-up under my eyes to hide those lovely black circles.
Breakfast. We all know it is important. Instead of running through a fast-food drive-thru, I go for a nutritional smoothie I make at home and drink it on the way to the office. The night before, I start some oatmeal in the slow cooker. I’ll boil a couple eggs and have with gluten-free toast. Another go-to is fruit or granola with yogurt. I aim for easy-to-make foods that are healthy, too. I plan my meals for the week and make sure I have what I need on hand.
Sleep. Try to get plenty of rest the night before. Easier said than done, right? This has been my biggest issue by far. The lack of sleep has wreaked havoc on my life. It is hard to get ready for work when you can’t keep your eyes open. Of course, there are medications you can take to help you sleep, but I prefer to try natural remedies. A nice, warm Epsom salt bath before bed helps relax my muscles.
I rest an hour before bedtime. I put the devices away. I color, meditate and lightly stretch. I read that malic acid (which you can buy as a supplement with or without magnesium) may help to repair muscle damage, which helps with pain reduction. I’ve been taking it with magnesium for a few months and it has helped calm my restless legs. I’ve heard some swear by melatonin, but I have yet to try it. I always check with my doctor and pharmacist to make sure there aren’t any negative interactions with my prescriptions prior to trying any new supplement.
Once in bed, some noise is helpful for me. A fan or relaxing music helps. I use the same playlist my massage therapist uses while she works her magic on me. I find it brings me right back to the massage table and I’m usually snoring by the third song.
These are just a few things I do to get out the door and head to work in the morning. Please feel free to comment and let me know what works — or hasn’t worked — for you.
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