I look forward to seeing movies in January every year. The best films often appear during the last few weeks of December in a mad rush to get them qualified for that year’s awards. Those are the very times I choose not to go. Long lines and noisy theaters are not my ideas of a good time. Instead, I await the January award shows to tell me what’s noteworthy and what’s not. Only then do I seek out the least crowded, least expensive showings of the contenders that sound interesting to me. Whether you’re influenced by the award nominees or you prefer to use your own standards of judgment, you will have no shortage of new movies to attend this month.
Moviegoing is the social equalizer for people who have difficulty participating in society for whatever reason — be it a chronic illness like fibromyalgia, time constraints, or other issues. Few activities allow such flexible participation. Even people with the most unpredictable of symptoms or the tightest of schedules can participate if they wish. The fact that there are so many showings of every movie is what makes it so doable. A variety of movies can be seen at hours throughout the day and night at a large number of locations. So, if you’re not feeling up to going on one day, you can go on another. And, if you find it necessary to cancel a viewing with companions because of illness, you can always catch a later showing by yourself. Attending alone is perfectly acceptable.
I consider moviegoing to be the perfect fibromyalgia activity. It requires no physical effort — other than getting from the car to your seat in the theater. These days (at least where I live) you can even print your ticket at home to save standing in a line once you arrive. And, although the price of movies has increased along with the price of everything else, they still remain one of the more affordable treats out there. The budgets of many fibro patients determine their activity level even more than their physical limitations do.
For me, the most satisfying thing about movies is that even if I only see a couple of the nominated selections, I have a stake in the world of award shows that appear on network television in the spring of every year. You can participate in the excitement of the ceremonies even if there’s only one movie you’d like to see win — or not win. Your life may be physically limited and more isolated than you’d like it to be, but this is one area in which you can participate on the same level as anyone else. As such, movies are great social connectors to healthier family members, old friends, or new acquaintances. Even if you don’t attend them together, you have something in common to discuss.
If you don’t make it to any of last year’s movies before this year’s award ceremonies, there’s always the DVD version in a few months. Watching the movie in your own living room is an even less expensive option. It’s also a reason to host an affordable social event. Invite some friends (whether they’ve seen the movie or not), pop some corn, and have some fun. It requires very little effort, very little money, and guarantees that you’re an informed participant in future conversations.
So, now we know how I’ll be spending my time during the highly anticipated month of January. The only thing that could make the experience more interesting for me would be the inclusion of an occasional character affected by fibromyalgia. I could definitely relate to that one. Hmmm … maybe it’s time to reconsider taking that course in screenwriting.
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