Get Past ‘I’m So Tired’

Get Past ‘I’m So Tired’
Christine Tender Points I'm no stranger to insomnia. It has been part of my life since childhood — as has fibromyalgia. Despite applying the knowledge I've accumulated about improving sleep and sleep hygiene, I still have occasional nights when I'm staring at the clock at 3 a.m. In an attempt to avoid as many of these nights as possible, I follow the guidelines suggested by the National Sleep Foundation:
  • Limit daytime naps to 30 minutes. A 30-minute nap is a challenge for me. My napping needs are unpredictable. Some days, after only four hours of sleep, I may not need a nap at all. Other days, after sleeping my optimum nine hours, my eyelids droop before I get through lunch. Typically, I can make it until 4 p.m. without a problem. The type and amount of activity I've done that day determines if and how long I nap. I must confess, it's rarely less than an hour.
  • Avoid stimulants such as caffeine and alcohol close to bedtime. My sensitive body doesn't do well with caffeine at any time of day. Other than an occasional cup of regular tea, I stick to decaf
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  1. Leigh says:

    Wish I could, “Get past, I’m so tired.”
    “Sleep hygiene” may work for those whom are healthy or marginally healthy – for those suffering from debilitating widespread pain, not so much. Pain keeps us from falling asleep and once we do fall asleep frequently wakes us up. I’m fortunate If I get 4 to 5 hrs. of sleep -none of which is uninterrupted. Just wait, ladies; peri-menopause and menopause makes everything worse. If you are prescribed pain and/or muscle relaxant meds. you can forget getting any sleeping meds. anymore. It’s a double edged sword: pain v. sleep, sleep v pain.
    I highly recommend Melatonin and Valerian Root. They do help a little bit and we do need all the help we can get!

  2. Denise Bault says:

    These sleep hygiene “tips” are for everyone. I strongly disagree with the one that says to limit daytime naps to 30 minutes. HA! If I did that, I’d be even worse off than I am now. Yes, I’ve tried it, been there, and it doesn’t make a bit of difference. Especially when I can’t keep my eyes open past 2 in the afternoon. I believe our bodies will tell us how long to sleep; if you are as sleep deprived as most fibro warriors, a 30 minute nap just may not do it.

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