Beware of, Prepare for, Feeling Overwhelmed

Beware of, Prepare for, Feeling Overwhelmed

Through the Fog
It’s so easy to become overwhelmed with our limitations and symptoms. Fibromyalgia is difficult on many levels. Kudos to those of you still working, not necessarily because you want to, but because you have to. Talk about overwhelming! Then there are those of you with young children doing the best you can and feeling guilty about what you can’t. Again, overwhelming!

When your thoughts become overwhelming, visualize the word(s) that describe your worry and written on a balloon. Close your eyes and release the balloon. Then take some slow, deep, steadying breaths.

Our thoughts can get us in trouble if we let them. Keeping a notepad to write things down can be helpful, as can praying through them.

When you feel overwhelmed ask yourself “What’s the next easy thing is I can do?” I love the quip: Q: How do you eat an elephant? A: One bite at a time. Take one step, one day at a time. Sometimes it may prove motivating to build in a reward for those times when we just can’t get going.

Tasks that potentially are physically overwhelming include: Taking a bath or shower; blow-drying your hair; putting on makeup; shaving; getting dressed; cooking; cleaning the house; working; caring for a pet; parenting; dating; yard work; traveling; and social functions. Take one step at a time, and be sure to REST as often as you can.

Feeling overwhelmed can lead to anxiety or depression. If that’s you, you could find a therapist or clergy to help.

Don’t become a slave to your to-do list. Sometimes having one can be helpful so that you don’t forget what you need to do. Perhaps writing each item with several small, actionable steps under it will make it more manageable and less stressful. That way you can check off each little step and know that you have accomplished something. What you don’t finish today you can move to tomorrow’s list.

Example of a to-do list:

  • Clean the kitchen
  • Wash the counters
  • Load the dishwasher
  • Sweep the floor
  • Clean the sink
  • Clear the table
  • Wash the floor

I hope you have found this to be helpful and that you’ll incorporate meditation or prayer and rest into your day to keep you from feeling overwhelmed.

What things have you tried that have helped you?

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10 comments

  1. Cherry Paul says:

    I think that’s been one of the biggest struggles for me, after being the go getter, the hustling, get the job done woman— Not anymore! AND my husband/family just don’t understand, even 3 years later.I feel like I’m lazy and tired all the time,but my husband doesn’t get it.I’m the one who handled EVERYTHING,but struggles every day just to remember what the hell I was getting ready to do two seconds before! It’s extremely frustrating & when people, doctors, family, and friends, just plain out think it’s what I call ” My Imagination “. It took 2 and a half years to even get diagnosed.I think the Rheumatologist just said “FIBROMYALGIA” because there was nothing to test.I wonder if having very physical jobs all my working years caused it. I also have major degenerative spine, neck,diseases.Migraines all my life,hips hurt,knees etc.I damaged my elbow pretty bad one day and it seemed like from there on I just fell apart literally. I always worked hard and even when I was sick or injured,I always made it to work & got the job done. Now it takes me out just trying to dust my furniture. I don’t go to the grocery store anymore, my husband goes,I don’t even want to go out anymore period, because it causes too much pain to get in & out of the truck. I’m afraid to drive because I can’t stay focused. Anyway, thanks for letting me vent and hopefully,those who are newly diagnosed with FIBROMYALGIA,aka “My Imagination”, can feel a little bit better knowing that you are NOT alone. I hope my small sample of some of my issues, gives some relief instead of overwhelment.But I must be honest, I’m feeling very overwhelmed right now. It has taken me over an hour just to write this! Frustration is my biggest hurdle! Good luck & Good Night!!!!

    • Dana says:

      I understand your frustration. I am lucky in that I have a wonderfully supportive husband and children, but friends just do not get it. They don’t see anything wrong with me, so it must be all in my head. I also deal with severe spinal and hip issues separate from the fibro, but am still at work ny 5 am and home at 5 pm. I know people on disability just from fibro, but i cannot afford to not work, my family cannot survive with just my husband’s income. I am so thankful for these newsletters i can print. They are so encouraging.

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